A couple days ago I sent you an email recommending you watch
Today, I wanted to talk about something that makes the
techniques in the video even more powerful.
See awhile back I realized that there is a missing step
that most teacher's leave out.
And if you miss this step then the material isn't even half
as effective as it could be....
Here's the problem: When you try to change a females opinion
of you she still sees you as the "old" you.
Big problem, especially if you weren't too cool at first.
Or if you were Mr. Nice Guy. Or a real push over. Or a
shy, quiet guy she hardly noticed.
All the material in the world won't work unless you can "change"
her opinion of you.
Most guys don't know how to do this....
So quick lesson then...
I discovered this "FIX" about 12 years ago while watching Monday
Nitro (pro wrestling).
There was a "good guy" Scot Steiner. And he had just turned
"bad."
But the crowd wasn't buying it. They had cheered him so long it
was hard for them boo him. Hard for the crowd to see him as anything
other than the likable guy he had always been.
But then he disappeared for a bit.
He came back a month later with a completely different look.
Not only that but he had different catch phrases.Everything about
him was just different.
I'm not telling to start dressing like the Big Bad Booty Daddy.
I'm not even telling you that you need an image overhaul.
What you need is something called a "Pattern Interrupt."
We as humans engage in certain "thought patterns." They
are unconscious. It's almost like a continual program that
is running inside our mind. Certain expectations.
And that woman has a certain pattern of thoughts when it
comes to YOU. And certain expectations.
Here is the key.
If you want to change her opinion of you, and ultimately get
her to become attracted to you... you need to use a PATTERN
INTERRUPT.
If you don't interrupt her thought pattern, then she is going to
keep engaging in thoughts that lead her think of you as a "friend."
Going back to Scott Steiner the wrestler. It wasn't enough for
him to just start cheating. And beating up the "good guys" for
the crowd to boo him.
He had to disappear. Interrupt the pattern. And come back with
a different image.
What is the secret to a pattern interrupt?
Confusion and THEN the new information.
Yes. Good old confusion.
Here's how confusion comes into the picture. Loss of certainty
means open-mindedness to what is.
A pattern interrupt confuses her conditioned mind, and in so
gets her old though habits out of the way long enough for
you to sneak your "new" opinion in there.
I know i'm getting pretty heavy on you. A lot of technical
stuff. Its worth really understanding this though. It's
powerful stuff. This used in combination with Eric's
Friend's into Lover techniques is DEADLY.
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THE FIX
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Ok.
So lets assume you are going to use the strategy taught
in Friends into Lovers to:
[+] Get an ex girlfriend back
[+] Turn a female friend into a lover
[+] Make some woman in your social circle fall in love
with you
The first step is to introduce confusion.
This confusion can come in a variety of different ways.
- an unexpected outburst or reaction
- a disappearance (like Scot Steiner)
- a vague or confusing text message
- a startling piece of information (even something a friend
"plants"
Basically you need to create a big enough "swerve" to
leave her momentarily confused...
Just enough time to "sneak" in there using Eric's stuff.
(learn about Eric's technique here)
(learn about Eric's technique here)
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If you have a girl in your life you want to make
fall in love with you. This combination is the closest
to the "secret sauce" to do it.
Did you ever see the movie Love Potion #9?
Powerful like THAT...
Talk soon,
Jay
P.S. Here is the link to watch Eric's video again:
